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Monthly Archives: September 2008

How do You Deal with a Backstabbing Coworker?

Tips from Jane Chin If your workplace is full of backstabbing coworkers, it means that backstabbing works at this company. You are in a toxic company. Polish your interview skills, update your resume, and get the heck out of there! If a backstabber comes to you with gossip about a coworker, give no input and [...]

That I Am [Video]

Video of the contest speech… this live performance differs from the transcript in that I had improvised and made reference to the contestants’ who went before me. Have you ever wondered why you believe what you believe about who you are? Do you know how easily you may form beliefs that can direct years – [...]

Week 32 What Matters Most

In this blog, I write about what I am learning and experiencing this year. This week’s “Lesson Learned” is really a reminder of what matters to me the most: What I share that is beautiful, authentic, and loving exists because I am blessed with beauty, authenticity, and love in my life.

Week 31 Problems or Decisions

Here is a simple way that I’ve learned to short-circuit mental stumbling blocks and leap forward: Whenever you think you have a problem, Ask yourself, “Is what I have here Really A Problem, or A Decision that I need to make?” You may just discover that what you believe to be a tangled mess of [...]

Week 30 Ties that Bind and Keys that Free

How many mental ties do you bind yourself with? When I feel suppressed and suffocated, it is because I chose to harden my beliefs and thinking. Things had to be “just so”. I box myself in, Tie my own hands, Summon dark clouds, And cover any sunlight within. When I condemn and judge instead of [...]